It is never easy to plan for the first dating, especially the first transgender dating. You may doing a lot about yourself before meeting your dating partner for the first time. As everything seem to be ready to dating, have you ever think about your dating conversation? What kinds of topics can you talk about on the first dating? Beside prepare for yourself, you need to prepare for some topics to talk about on the dating. In order to reduce the dating pressure and help transgender people to have a successful dating, here are topics that should be avoid on your first trans dating.
1. Your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend
This is common sense that you should not talking about your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend on the dating. No one wants to talk about your former relationship on a dating. If you still cannot forget your former relationship, how can you start a new relationship with other people? Why are you dating with a new person here? However, you can talk a little bit about your relationship histories, such as what you’ve learnt from the former relationship? What will you do in the next relationship?
2. Your current problem
Everyone is living with pressure, there are many problem ahead of us. However, it is not a good idea to share your current problem with your dating partner, especially on the first dating. Dating is happy and full of wishes, if you always talk something that irritates you recently and complain about your current life, it shows that you are negative. No one wants to date and live with a negative person. Instead of complaining about your current life, you can make a plan about your future life, and share your future plan with your dating partner.
3. Your dating history
It is nothing to be proud of if you are a man with a lot of dating histories. In order to show how attractive they are, many men like to share their dating histories with their dating partners, especially when date a trans woman. Some of them even make comments on their former dating partners. Will you make comments on your present partner after the dating? This is a question that their partners may think about. So, don’t show off your dating experience on your first trans dating, it is red flag of your dating.
4. Someone you meet on social media
Online dating site is the best way to find trans dating partner, however, if your partner knows that you are always wandering on different kinds of social media, how can she trust that you are seriously dating with her, not for fun or hookup. Not all trans women want to find a hookup partner, most of them are long for a serious relationship. If you are looking for a trans dating partner, you need to show your seriousness and honesty to her. A man who is serious with his relationship will never wandering on all kinds of social medias to accost other people.